Step Your Dick Up: Why incels deserve better advice

Men who can’t get sex are seen as losers

We hear a lot about double standards between female and male sexual behaviour. Women who have a lot of sex are often slut shamed, while men who have lots of sex are seen as ‘studs.’ What is often ignored however, is how true the exact inverse of this is. Men who cannot get sex are seen as losers and lampooned as members of the most derided group in society…incels.

Meanwhile, perpetually single women are celebrated in society and we lament the lack of…

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Psychology PhD Student Swansea University. MSc Psychology, Culture and Evolution from Brunel University London 2020/21. Bylines in Areo and Quillette.

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William Costello

William Costello

Psychology PhD Student Swansea University. MSc Psychology, Culture and Evolution from Brunel University London 2020/21. Bylines in Areo and Quillette.

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