Will and Jada: The Poster Couple that Polyamory Needs?
It wasn’t until I moved from Ireland to England at the age of 22 that I realised that not all gay men were stereotypically camp. Regretfully, I had an erroneous vision of gay men as effeminate, flamboyant, limp wristed and somewhat…silly. I was happily surprised to encounter masculine, sophisticated and mature men…who just happened to be gay.
This was not out of some homophobic Catholic Irish upbringing either, Ireland has proven itself to be one of the most progressive countries in the world on this front. In 2015 we became the first country in the world to vote, by way of referendum, to legalise same sex marriage.
My limited knowledge was simply because the only representation of gay men I had experienced in my relatively sheltered life was the caricature presented to me through media. I was just 15 when Heath Ledger and Jake Gyllenhaal ‘scandalised’ cinemas by ‘controversially’ depicting a gay couple on the silver screen in Brokeback Mountain. The fact that it is now laughable that this was once considered controversial is indicative of how far we’ve come in terms of visibility/representation for gay people.
However, my perception of what it meant to be gay could not change until I was presented with different characters around whom to build new stories.
Stereotypically Polyamorous
This brings us to our current perception of polyamorous or consensually non-monogamous couples, which is tritely…